Are you ready to transform your love life? 

As we approach the end of the year, we naturally reflect on what we want for our future. For many of you, that’s a relationship. 

But you might be wondering: how does Damona get people like YOU from where you’re at into a committed partnership? How is coaching DIFFERENT from listening to this podcast or following her on social media?

Today’s episode is special because you get a front-row seat inside a real coaching session with Michelle, a prior client who was pregnant and becoming a solo mom by choice when she took Damona’s course two years ago. 

You’ll witness firsthand how we go from confusion to clarity, from frustration to dating success. Sit back and get ready for some real, raw, and actionable advice that could change your love life.

Single Mom to Dating Pro (05:13)

Talk about a plot twist! Michelle dove into dating coaching while navigating early pregnancy. Who knew impending motherhood could spark such a dating revolution?

There’s no “perfect” time to seek love – sometimes, the most unexpected moments lead to the greatest growth.

As she balances the excitement of a new chapter with the search for a partner, we see how self-discovery and dating can go hand in hand.

Navigating the Dating Pool (14:11)

“I’m getting more matches because I’m more curious about people, but I’d say the people who I’m swiping on, who I’m both curious and excited about, that number is much less,” Michelle reflects on her dating experiences.

It’s all about casting a wider net and trusting your instincts! Sometimes, the perfect match might come from an unexpected place. 

There is a delicate balance between quantity and quality in the digital dating world

The Unavailable vs. The Nice Guy (21:20)

In her coaching session, Michelle found herself caught between two types of men: those who weren’t fully available and those who were almost too available. Is there a happy medium?

Damona breaks it down: “You can’t judge yourself into attraction… The attraction should build. And if it’s not building or if it’s actually decreasing, then that is your answer.” This dilemma sheds light on a common dating struggle – the quest for that elusive spark. 

Michelle’s experience prompts us to question: Are we sometimes drawn to unavailability? Do we overlook potential partners who are ready and willing?

Trusting Your Instincts (37:46)

As the session wraps up, Michelle realizes she needs to trust herself more in the dating process. But how do you silence that inner critic that says you’re doing it all wrong?

Damona encourages a mindset shift: “You have all the answers already, trust in yourself that you do. You do know what you’re doing in dating.” 

We often know more than we give ourselves credit for. The challenge lies in quieting the doubts and tuning into our inner wisdom. 

Dear Damona: Help Me!!

Do you have questions? Damona has the answers! Don’t forget you can submit your dating and relationship questions for our Dear Damona segment on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or leave us a voicemail or text to 424-246-6255, and hear Damona’s answers live in a future episode!