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For over a decade singles have come to me with the same challenge, “What do I say in my online dating profile?”
It’s difficult to write about yourself. You want to be humble but impressive at the same time.
You have to be specific enough to attract the person you’d like to meet, yet general enough not to turn off your perfect match before you even get to the date.
You’d like to sound witty and charming but maybe writing is not your strong suit.
You know that the real action starts when you begin making matches online but without a profile, you can’t even get to the dates.
I want to make it simple for you. I want you to be able to move past the profile phase more quickly so you can get to chatting, dating, and falling in love more quickly.
After years of writing profiles for clients I’ve taken created a simple profile writing jumpstarter kit that offers you two ways to write a profile.
PART 1 – THE WRITER’S UN-BLOCK PROFILE
The top idea generating questions if you are having writers block and don’t know where to begin.
PART 2 – THE PLUG AND PLAY PROFILE
Fill-in-the-blank profile templates inspired by the top date-getting profiles that I ever created. All you have to do is fill in the blanks with your personal stories and details and you can have a magnetic profile in as little as 10 minutes that will draw in the exact kind of dates you’d like to meet.
THE WRITER’S UN-BLOCK
What did you learn from the place where you grew up?
What did you learn from your parents, siblings, family?
What do you love about your work?
What is your passion?
What’s your most outrageous or inspiring travel story?
What is your biggest accomplishment in life?
What’s the weirdest/funniest thing about you?
Who do you admire?
What do you love?
What do you hate?
What makes you laugh?
What makes you cry?
What are your favorites (show, movie, activities, music) and why?
What’s your biggest turn on?
What would someone never guess about you from looking at you?
THE PLUG AND PLAY PROFILE
Cut and paste these profiles into your Word doc, fill in the blanks and voila – you have a new profile that has a proven track record for success.
SAMPLE TEMPLATE 1
Growing up in ___________ taught me to never______________ but also to always_________. I guess that is why I _____________ now. ___________ inspired me to _______________ which makes me feel____________ every time.
The __________thing about my work is I get to _________________. There’s nothing more _____________ than _______________. After work, I’m a little embarrassed to admit that I often/sometimes ________________.
A man/woman who_____________ always excites me. Bonus points if you can ________ and if you______________. If it sounds like fun to ___________ or _________ send me a message with your favorite________ in the subject line.
SAMPLE TEMPLATE 2
___(My city) ____is ________ and ___________ but I must admit that ____________. There’s nothing quite like _________ or ___________. Though most of my time is spent _____________ , I do love to ____________________ – any chance to _________ and __________ excites me.
The philosophy I live by is __________________so you need to ____________. I don’t __________ or ___________ as long as I have ____________________.
What’s important to me in a partner? _________________ and it wouldn’t hurt if ________________. A __________is important to me. If ______ and _______ make you ________ too, we might be a match made in heaven.
SAMPLE TEMPLATE 3
Picture it, ___(CITY) , __(YEAR)____. I’m wearing __________ and ___________. Hard to believe that now I’m __________________. Back then I thought__________ ruled but I’ve come to realize there are more important things in life like _________.
I am an avid __________ and even though I have _______, I actually prefer ________. My lifelong goal is _____________. So far ________.
I would love to meet a ______ who enjoys _________ too but above all else, I’m turned on by guys/women who ________. ________, _________, and___________ are big wins in my book. You don’t have to look like ______ or ____________. Just _________ and love _________ and we’ll get along just fine.
SAMPLE TEMPLATE 4
Saying yes to _________ has made me ___________ I’m open to any activity involving _________but you should know __________ but as long as we’re having fun I don’t mind.
I hope you’re the type of guy/woman who, like me, _______ and _______. Nothing is sexier to me than ________ and __________. Seeing the way my parents ________ makes me excited to ______________.
You can find me most days wearing __________ with _________. Right now I’m looking for occasions to wear my ______(strange piece of clothing)___ so let me know if you have any ideas….